A thinking thinker
A blog about simple yet neglected important life topics.
Friday 6 January 2017
India's Daughter
“You can’t clap with one hand. It takes two hands to clap. A decent girl won’t roam around at 9 o’clock at night. A girl is far more responsible for rape than a boy.”
Vinay Sharma, convicted of Jyoti’s rape and murder.
Pawan Gupta, convicted of Jyoti’s rape and murder.
Akshay Thakur, convicted of Jyoti’s rape and murder.
The juvenile, convicted of Jyoti’s rape and murder.
“Whenever there’s a crime, the girl is blamed, ‘She should not go out. She should not roam around so late or wear such clothes.’ It’s the boys who should be accused and asked why they do this. They shouldn’t do this.”
“She will not survive more than 2 to 3 days. Given what has happened, it is hard to believe she’s survived. We do not understand how she still is alive. (The doctors had told him)”
“In 2006, Jyoti’s mother asked me to tutor her daughter. Jyoti’s family is traditional, but their thinking is modern.” Asha Singh, Jyoti’s mother, “We sold our ancestral land to pay her fees.
The following statements were of the defense lawyers:
AP singh, defense lawyer for the rapists: “If very important, if very necessary, she should go outside. But, she should go with their family members, like uncle, father, mother, brother, grandfather, grandmother, exc. She should not go in night hours with her boyfriend.”
ML Sharma, defense lawyer for the rapists, “A female is just like a flower. It gives a good-looking… very softness performance, pleasant. But on the other hand, a man is just like a thorn. Strong, tough enough. That flower always needs protection. If you put that flower in a gutter, it is spoilt. But if you put that flower in a temple, it will be worshiped."
“They all actually came from very deprived conditions, where their surrounding are not a very good place, and there’s overcrowding. That’s a very common scene that women have been tortured and beaten, or sexually abused by their male partners or husbands. And they have seen prostitution also running in their area, in the neighborhood area also. So it’s not very new to them. That’s what actually makes them again and again surprised, “Why us?”
The following statement was of Dr. Rashmi Ahuja, gynecologists, Safdarjung hospital:
“Public opinion should not become the reason for any kind of conviction or even death-sentence at times. I don’t think they belong to that kind of social order or that kind of country, India is not that kind of country. Many countries are like that, they hang the person on a pole, kill the men straightaway, cut his hand, throw him away. And that kind of thing doesn’t happen in this country. I mean this is a democratic country and a very liberal country from that point of view. We have very rich traditions of tolerance also. So probably from that point of view the demand for death sentences in many cases is not in the spirit of India’s history.”
“Most of us heard about the case very soon after it happened on December 17th , the very next day. And almost immideitly the students of the JNU University, there is a very powerful student union there and student movement there, so student organizations and student unions there immideitly came out on the streets to protest on the same day.”
The following statement was given by Sheila Dixit, delhi chief minister (1998-2013):
Gopal Subramanium, Senior Advocate, Supreme Court, co-author of Verma Report, “Nobody is a monster that he is excluded from society. After all, any society which has these rapists, has to take responsibility for them. And this is the first thing which the feminist callers who came before the Verma Committee said that these are our people. These men are ours.”
Leila Seth, former chief justice, member of rape review committee, “It was extremely brutal. And it is unusual to find that they not only raped the girl, they put an iron rod in her and took out her internals. Its something I can’t understand. What kind of human being are these who would do something like that.”
The following statements were of the Delhi police:
Pramod Kushwa, addinonal deputy commissioner Delhi Police, “The first accused, we were able to identify the bus within the span time of 24hrs. We checked all the hotels along the route and on a hotel there was one particular camera which was facing towards the road. On the cctv footage of that camera we noticed that there was a bus which had crossed the area twice, which was unusual for a bus that was going on a highway. And on a closer look we came to know that this bus was a school bus. And because of these clues we were able to narrow down our search to 50-60 such buses.”
“Her death has made a huge difference. I think that first of all it has really brought home the issue of the problems of the weight women obsessive, young and independent women obsessive in Indian society. Its opening up a debate in India, that I think hasn’t been held publically and widely about exactly what the relationship between men and women should be.”
A news report on 11th of March 2013, “Ram Singh, one of the prime accused in the gruesome December 16th gang rape of a 23 year old girl, had allegedly committed suicide in the special cell in Tihad Jail this morning. The incident took place in Jail number 3 at around 5:45 in the morning.”
Sunday 18 December 2016
A meal for the brain
When Bill gates, the owner of Microsoft, and his wife Melinda Gates, gets bored or tired of the workload of their business empire, they compete with each other by playing jigsaw puzzle to see who would solve it first.
Think for second; the owner of a multimillion-dollar business empire, who can access any form entertainment whenever he would wish, why would he entertain himself with puzzles? According to Gates, he likes it.
Puzzles have secrets hidden under deep folds; they take us far away from all the other worries. You reach a completely new world through logic, intelligence, luck, hands and sometimes with just a tip of the pencil, a world in which you face the complications, which are really but the solution to your problems.
A puzzle is like a song – a fine puzzle can give you all the delights of being loony, just like a mysterious tale does. Puzzles are capable of amazement, knowledge, conversations, meaningfulness and erasing the emotional stress through its solutions.
The obstacles in the puzzles, not only reduces the stress but also gives the strength to handle them and makes you realize that there are many more things left to do. Their challenging quandary gives the brain a chance to relax.
From the beginning of every new day, new challenges start building themselves up. The moment we wake up, the brain starts getting assignments for the day’s work. In fact, when we are asleep at night, even then, through the dreams our brain is trying to churn and organize everything that has happened during the day. The ever working brain yearns for challenges and the perplexing puzzles does this work the best. Through them, the nerve of our brain gets a great work out session.
Why are we so eager to solve mysteries and puzzles? Why, despite the fact that the world is filled with over a thousand mediums for entertainment, Sudoku, picture puzzles and many more such small or big, some hard and some easy puzzles excites us so much that we end up leaving all the work behind just to solve them? Because...
It is a unique way to spend the time by solving puzzles. The interesting concept of the questions and their complexity is what that prompts us to solve the puzzles. An excellent puzzle is like a thing that is pleasant, candid, satisfactory and pellucid. In which nobody lies. They are vivid and the puzzles are dependent on you, it is your necessity to solve them.
Puzzles are no less than an educational plaything. A brain is made to solve the riddles of information, and so it loves puzzles. Have you ever noticed that whenever a person sees an object for the first time, the first question is always, "What is this?"
Puzzles are a form of inducements. This inducement is attached with a person's self-satisfaction, something that motivates to solve them. When you find the solutions for those puzzles, you feel like a conqueror. It does well in satisfying one’s self-esteem.
Do not try to get to know the whole world within the first try. It is a very difficult thing to do. There is a possibility that you will get tired and will drop it in the middle. So, try to solve a small portion of it. Even better; create your own world, in which there can be interesting elements and rules- a game, a puzzle, a principle, a revelation.
This revelation could be the disentanglement of the puzzle. After this revelation, a person can return to their day-to-day life with the confidence that they made a day, which was meaningful, and that they were a conqueror.
The brain has an excessive need for mental challenges, and the meal of puzzles keeps it active and healthy.
So, was your meal of the day fulfilling?
Tuesday 8 November 2016
On being Hindu
When India is publicized on an international platform, it is flaunted as a rich country that accepts all religions. People from diverse cultures and languages, celebrates all sorts of festivals, together. There is no doubt in the fact that India is the only country on this earth, where there are so many different languages and so many different religions living collectively.
However, I think that this quality of India has now become a burden on her. For how long can one pretend? For how long can a person suppress their hatred? It seems that these days, India only wants to breathe in one word as though it is a lifeline, “Hinduism”. From time to time, those who belong to a different religion or cast, are forced to take in that they are not Indians, and so they should always be ready to face hatred and demise.
Usually we get to see that a Lion kills other carnivorous of the jungle, because he believes them to be his competitor, although he never eats them. When given a closer look it becomes clear that the temperament of every (carnivorous) being is quite alike. Humans are the only living beings in this universe that holds analytical and logical wisdom; and this the quality that makes humans different/singular from other intelligent beings.
However, why should I talk about the universe or the world, I am more worried about the place I live in; I am concerned for myself. I am concerned for my thoughts, for my existence. I am worried about the religion and values, which I have inherited. I am worried (scared) about being a fraction of Hindu, despite the fact that I am Bhartiya. I am worried about my Christian mother. Will someone cut me in two pieces one day on the middle of the road, and would name one part Hindu and the other part Christian?
A few days ago, I got the chance to read news that said, “Nawazuddin siddiqui was stopped from playing a role in Ramlila, in his own village; because he was a Muslim who was daring to play the role of a Hindu.”
It would be wrong to think that Indians (Hindus) have started to believe these things unexpectedly. Discrimination among casts is the very foundation of India. History of India is replete with stories of racial discrimination, in which Hindus (of “Upper Cast”) were always given priority. Any other casts or religions on Indian soil were considered as aggressors and encroachers. They were never believed to be an equal of Hindus.
Karn wanted to learn archery, for which he went to Guru Dronacharya. However, Dronacharya only trained Shatriyas. He insulted Karn by calling him a “Shudra Putr” and refused to teach him, after which Karn sworn to become a greater archer than him. He then went to Dronachrya’s Guru, the Shiv bhakt Parshuram. Parshuram only taught Brahmans; and so afraid that he too would refuse to teach him, Karn lied about being a Brahman.
However, even Karn did not know the truth about himself at that point of time. When Pashuram found out that a Shudra family had raised Karn, he cursed him; a curse that ended up being the reason of Karn’s death. Dronacharya had also refused to teach Eklavya, for he was a Bheel by cast (and was a better archer than his prized student Arjun). Eklavya then became a great archer on his own, and was tricked and killed by Krishna in a war.
There is no sign of sorrow in the books of history, for the disdain these two characters (Karn and Eklavya) had to endure. What we do get to read quite often is the mention of their defiant nature, which simply was the result of the disdain they had to endure even though they were proficient.
Even today, whether the person is alive or dead, he/she is treated according to the cast and religion that they practice. However, it seems that nowadays, all the boundaries of cruelty and hatred for casts and religions have been crossed in Hindustan.
Tuesday 20 September 2016
An open letter to Mr. Bachchan
Dear Mr. Amitabh Bachchan,
A few days ago, you had written an emotional open letter to your granddaughters. The letter was about what the society thinks of women and how women are disgraced. All the things written in this letter were the same that has been said by all from ages now, all the blames were the same. Nevertheless, I still felt connected to the letter. Things written in this letter were the same things that every girl, every woman thinks, no matter which country she belongs to.
If I had written something on this topic, I do not believe I would have had influenced many people by it. My friends (those whom I know personally and those whom I know on social media) and family might have had agreed with me, but what about those millions of other people?
You are a National Icon Mr. Bachchan. You are famous, well respected and a brand-ambassador of many endorsements. I thought, or believed, this would mean that people would understand you more easily. For example, you became the ambassador for the "Polio free India" campaign, and today, India is a polio free country. So when you wrote the open letter, I thought that would help make the big change this country has been yearning for.
I like you, as an actor, but I am not as inspired by you like others that I would follow you on Twitter or any other social networking site. However, I liked your letter so much that I shared it as much as I could have; I tagged people in it when I posted it, and I told as many people as I could about this letter.
There has been some news flying around for some time now, about how you have told the directors to cut Ashwarya's intimate scenes from her recent and upcoming movies. I had thought of them to be a rumor or maybe as you had said in your letter about how people look at woman in the wrong way; maybe you were being protective about how people might look at Ashwarya because of those scenes.
Today, I stumbled upon another piece of news ( http://khabar.ndtv.com/news/filmy/navya-naveli-nanda-replies-to-his-grandfather-amitabh-bachchans-letter-1463744 ), about how the open letter was a promotional stunt for your movie "Pink".
(A piece from the interview) अमिताभ बच्चन के बताया, "शूजित ने कहा कि क्यों न हम फिल्म के मैसेज को एक खत के रूप में सामने लाएं और क्यों न आप इसे अपनी पोतियों के लिए लिखें. यह एक अच्छा तरीका होगा लोगों को फिल्म की कहानी बताए बिना 'पिंक' के बारे में बताने का." उन्हें लगता है कि इस पत्र ने अपना काम किया.
I was shocked, and somewhat hurt too. Shocked because you are supporting the "Beti badhao, Beti padhao" campaign. Hurt because I was emotionally attached with the letter.
The mental and emotional torture a woman goes through every other day; you are using that and that too for promoting your film. It is truly shameful Mr. Bachchan.
You have been reciting your father's poems all your life, everywhere, on every stage. You have always been reciting dialogs (whether on your own or public demand) everywhere, dialogs that the scriptwriter had written.
Now tell us the truth Mr. Bachchan, who had truly written the script of this letter.
Sincerely,
A woman.
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