Think, think and think again

To fulfill the curse of Vrinda (wife of Jalandhar), lord Vishnu and lord Shiva created a character called "Ravan". He was a learned man; he may have kidnapped Sita but never once did he touched her. He did not just kidnapped her because she was a beautiful woman but he actually wanted to marry her. The truth is that, all this was the creation of the creators of this world. Indra disguised himself as Ahiliya's husband and than he raped her. Why don't we burn his mannequin every year? Today in every town women are getting kidnapped, raped and become victims of acid attacks. Can't you see the difference between Ravan and Today's Amoral? Has anyone ever showed the courage to burn the mannequins of the Delhi Rape Case Convicts or people like Asaram? Instead burning the characters of stories, we should burn the mannequins of people who we can actually see today. And only then will this society learn the real meaning of evil-doings.

तेरा मेरा रिश्ता

**एक रिश्ता

किताब में रखे सुखे गुलाब सा

एक रिश्ता

सुबह ओस में भीगे गुलाब सा

एक रिश्ता

सुहागरात की सेज पर बिखरे गुलाब सा

एक रिश्ता

शीशी में भरे इत्रगुलाब सा

एक रिश्ता

उसे देख कर खिले चेहरा गुलाब सा

एक रिश्ता

तेरा मेरा गुलकंद में गुलाब सा।

मनीषा शर्मा~

हर पल जियो

हर मरूस्थल के नीचे एक सागर होता है।

हर सागर भी एक मरूस्थल ही तो है।

मीठी नदी सागर में समाती है और खारी हो जाती है।

तट की भीड़ का हर इंसान अंदर से निराश व हारा हुआ है। बसती में सुख -दुख, अच्छा -बुरा सब कुछ है।

मगर जंगल में शान्ति , सुकून और सुंदरता है।

तुम्हारी स्थिरता से ही उसकी निरंतरता कायम है।

ऋतुओं की तरह तुम मत (फितरत)बदलो स्थिर रहो।

हर पल को जियो, भले ही पल भर को जियो।

मनीषा शर्मा~

Know your strength and respect them

Know your strength and respect them

Some guys from Mumbai created a group named "White Law-eater"; under which they want to spread the message that everyone has the freedom to live their life the way they wish to live, women does too. To prove it, this group of guys marched through the streets wearing women’s clothing. In Turkey too men had held protest by wearing women clothing, to stop violence against women. Every other day new videos are coming up to encourage women and to make them feel more strong and better. Are these videos really needed? Will they change the view men have towards women? No. Not until a woman always feels that she is strong; not until a woman starts respecting other woman too.

Why are woman thought to be weak and so are abused? Are women really physically and emotionally weak? No; not at all. After living in a house for eighteen years and then moving to a new house with new people after marriage is not easy. If she is emotionally weak then she would have never been able to leave her house and sometimes not only her house or city but even the country. Why is this so difficult for men when they are so strong? If her muscle strength is seen then she is way stronger.

First we have to stop discrimination in boy-girl. We are not able to round up two (men-women), then how are we going to understand all the others (eunuchs, lesbians, gays, etc.)? They are having their own war to get a place in this society.

The fact is that men are afraid to admit their weaknesses and women do not identify their own strength. If she hits her head in his or kick’s him between the legs, he will fall on the floor face down.

Woman’s adornments should not be seen as her weakness. Raziya Sultan and Rani Laxshmi Bae were covered in adornments when they picked the sword. It is irrelevant to make the style of clothing and physical appearance an issue. If every mother stops discrimination in her daughter and daughter-in-law, then every daughter-in-law will see her sister-in-law as her own sister and her mother-in-law as her own mother. Can we accept the fact that instead of men, women are the enemy against women?

If a man abuses a woman to prove he is powerful then it is also a truth that on every step a woman insults a woman, they do not support each other. Nature have made woman strong, what’s needed is that she understands her own strength and also respects’ other woman.

जीवन चक्र

**घड़ी की सुइयों के आगे बढ़ने से

वक्त बदलता है

सुबह का दोपहर, दोपहर का शाम में बदलना

दिन बदलता है

बचपन का जवानी, जवानी का बुढ़ापे में बदलना

जीवन बदलता है

इन सब पर मेरा कौई बस नहीं

पर, ये सब मुझको भी बदलते हैं

क्या मेरा मुझ पर भी कोई बस नहीं है?

मनीषा शर्मा ~

मैं प्रेम के बीज बोना चाहती हू

**मैं प्रेम के बीज बोना चाहती हूं

पर नहीं जानती इस बीज से कैसा पौधा लगेगा

कही कोई बेल लग गई और मुझ से लिपट गई

बेल की नाजुकता मुझे सुकून देगी या बेल की कसावट से मेरा दम घुटेगा?

कही कोई कँटीला झाड़ पनप गया तो?

उसके काँटे मुझे मुझे दर्द देगें

उसकी वजह से बाकी सब भी मुझसे कतरायेगे 

मुझे खुबसूरत खुशबूदार फुलों का पौधा नहीं चाहिये

मुझे मीठे फलों से लबरेज़ पेड़ भी नहीं चाहिये

इनकी रौनक तो समय दर समय बदलती रहती हैं 

कोई बडा सा पेड़ भी तो लग सकता है,
जिसमे भले ही फल-फूल न लगे,

उससे गलबहिया कर मैं झूल जाया करूँगी,

जब चाहुगी उस में ही छुप जाऊँगी,

तब मैं चिडियाँ सी चहचहाऊगी,

किसी गिलहरी की तरह ऊछल कुद मचाऊँगी,

उसकी छाँव में किसी थके मुसाफिर सा सुकून पाऊँगी | 

या धरती में दबे सुसुप्त बीज की तरह अपने सीने में प्रेम

के बीज को दबा कर रखूं ओर समय पर छोड दू | 

मनीषा शर्मा~

Key to success

The best ideas come from being active.

When starting a new job, if it will succeed or not depends on your idea about how it will work. If we give attention to a few things in every new work, success will walk with us.

1) An idea came, start working on it. When mistakes are made, fix them but do not give up.

2) Gather up information on the idea you are working on. Talk to people about your work. Do not hesitate to consult.

3) Do not go always go with your own thoughts. Become an inventor, not a consumer. Always think about how to make things better and more useful.

4) Keep yesterday’s thoughts in mind along with today's work/thoughts. Think big. Keep a big goal.

5) Keep an eye on the successes of others. Keep an eye on how they work and think. Look at how and where you made mistakes and where they did not. Do not hesitate to adopt the ideas of others for your needs.

6) Make a product according to the place; one product does not work everywhere. Create a product that with only slight changes can fulfill the needs of many.  

7) Try to take risks sometimes. Walk in a different direction from the market; do something opposite from people’s expectations. Show creativity in shape and colors of your creation.

8) Resolve any problems immediately, do not leave it on tomorrow. Keep the “solving things immediately” as a habit; it will also help with new ideas.

Using these ways you will be able to move forward from your problems. To make your identity through your work, you need to give your 100% to your work.