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Tuesday, 27 October 2015

The little girl in her



I look around and wonder why do people look at a married woman differently? She might look better dressed, maybe wearing an ornament or two that mark her married. But she's still a girl at heart, sindoor and bindi don't make her a woman. She may be still learning how to run a home, she still might be struggling taking care of not just herself but two and more people, she might not always like to hear 'what does your husband do'. Marriage doesn't suddenly turn a girl into a woman. For that matter having kids doesn't necessarily do the same either. Celebrate who she really is, celebrate the child in her, she may be anyone around you, your friend, your sister, your mother, a total stranger. She's not supposed to be responsible for innumerous things, countless chores, it's just her desire for perfection that she does what she does. This is for every wonderful woman I know. Grow up but take your own sweet time & let the little girl in you live forever. And for all my male friends, cherish her, spoil her and most importantly let her be. She wasn't born to take care of you, it's her heart that makes her do so.

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  1. Wow.. really a great post. I loved it.

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  2. I think this is not an ONLY good/bad/worst n/or whatever complementary post. But this is an serious issue on still most of peoples have to think.

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    1. I agree with you Manoj, people really do need to think more about this issue. A woman makes a house worth living, she does all she can (even more) to make everyone happy. The least one could do is let her live the way she wants to, let her be whoever she wants to be.

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  3. Women in any form simply rock. I'm not saying it because I'm a woman. Every bit of work she does from sunrise to sunset makes a house, society, world livable. One can write pages after pages in praise of them. They sincerely deserve a bit of true admiration.

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    1. Every person knows these points Aneeta, every man and every woman. But the problem is that people for whatever reason, find it hard digest.

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